I want to be around when you need me.... love mom

Read these lyrics and remember that I need your love too. Remember that I sometimes

need your hug, your smile, your way of doing things, and your listening ears too. I

understand that you are growing up and need your personal space and enjoy quality

time with other family members,and friends. I respect your feelings and I am glad

that we can communicate and listen and love each other just the way we are...

I can understand if you tell me.....

I just dont want to be the type that dont understand my children. I know that I cant

always be there for every thing or every heart break but I want to emphasis that I

will be only a conversation away, a hug away, a smile away. I express how much I

care for them in person and on the telephone. Many of my friends know how I feel

about them and know how special they are to me. Being a single parent with rules,

and love for my children, I expect our relationship to blossom each day.

How I feel about blogging on Parenting topic?

To me blogging is an excellent way to exercise my views, thoughts, and opinions

on raising my children and my mother and two little sisters. When my mom is not

at her best, I take out the time to assist her needs and when my children need a

hug I give them one and I often observe and listen to them when they seem down

and when they are happy. I cannot be there all the time but I do my part as a

mother. However, I am learning new ways to communicate and observe and listen.

Recently a new grandmother, My grandbaby is 15 months and is very special to me and

my family. Being in school full time, My time is limited but my heart is in it.

love in better or worse times

family today does matter. whether it is just you and dad or you and mom or whether it

is grandma and one family generation that has shown family support and gave love

back from each circumstance you go through. Holding grudges is not good for noone.

And family matters do show several episodes on holding grudges within a family unit.

But they always make up and restore love in action and word. Loving one another in the

good times and bad times has an importance...

Just dad and me

In short, some families have just a parent and child. It is not that it was meant

to be that way. But loving each other despite whatever comes up means alot and

helps proves that they will be there for any situation. Whether you blow up in

a issue or over a problem, just relax and know that you can ask for forgiveness

and show love in action to help restore for the wrong behavior. That is the one

good thing about loving others they will forgive you and we all mess up sometimes.

The example of family timesharing....

Family Time is great. Talking about everything is important. But being aware of

embarrassments and achievements when discussing each others thoughts for the day. I

believe that the Obama family is an example on how to interact with each one on a

day to night basis. We know that no family is perfect but we know that time sharing

is great and it inspires each other to do better in communicating, listening and

giving out hugs, and kisses and giving and receiving gifts. It all matters.

Erasing hatred and restoring humankind love....

Miss Mary is a hero in my eyes and heart. She stood for peace keeping and helped

in fighting for minorities. She past away in 1955, and many others have picked up

the spirit to assist in the war against racism, prejudices, stereotypes and hatred

toward other individuals due to their skin color, choice of religion and etc...

But in our history we have many that has and are still doing this good work....

Leaving it to my situation, and lesson taught

To enrich my attitude to a more pleasant atmosphere, I really tuned in to this show.

Many of these episodes are filmed in an clean communicating style. Shaping how I

reacted in several situations has made me live through a life of vaulable lessons.

I agree that I did not come close to every episodes match, but for future reference

I related to the real message in every episode being viewed.

Living and learning from television

Waking up to this program really helped inspired me to learn from the things I see

everyday. Even sitting watching it over with my two youngest sisters, I can say I

learned something interesting without all the violence being shown on television and

movies.

Imagine being without love

I use to watch this movie and feel sorry for her, Annie, because she wanted to be loved. And many other things went wrong in this movie, communication, and slavery to name a few. How you treat someone is important. And what you say to them is very important. How you handle an situation or issue is up to you. Because the picture or situation replays over and over and is embedded in our memory. So people dont know no better, so they cannot be on the same page you are on. But for all of those who can do better, should do better. Yes, we all make mistakes, but training and lessons are there to help make us stronger or weaker in the right area.....

Hobbies

My hobbies contain: computer surfing, reading, shopping, chatting on my cellphone, spending time with my family and friends, learning new skills, and cooking. Yes, cooking is still something I find time to do. My signature dish is potatoes obrien.
I like to eat the skins on yellow gold and red potatoes. I have other dishes that I get compliments on, such as: cornbread dressing, potato salad, and baked steak. With cooking today, the microwave has been invented and it takes less time to create any meal with using it. But a home cooked meal tastes fresher to me. Many may disagree, but I do purchase pizza rolls, tgif buffalo wings, and frozen pizza to cook in the microwave or oven. However, friends ask me what I am making and to save them a plate when I do prepare an homecook meal. It is a pleasure to share and to be offered an compliment these days.

Loving each other is the best way....

Family Ties was another favorite show that I stayed indoors to watch. Could not wait to see the next episode. What to do? What to say? and how to treat others? was all shown in this show. Laughter is medicine to your heart and it is important to do... As we grow up, we learn how to treat others and leave the small gossip or bad attitudes out. Learning how to love a stranger,or friend,can be challenging or it can be something fun to do. Who knows but you.....

Websites that help renew my mind/heart...daily...

MaMaHugs, Paula White, Joyce Meyers, T.D. Jakes, Rod Parsley, Gloria Copeland, Kenneth Copeland, Benny Hinn, is some favorite mentors of mine. I usually visit their websites and I read and listen and they offer advice and leave room for any worry that you may be experiencing. We all need some one or people that will listen to us. Many of times we feel awkward telling everything to people that is super close to us or feel strange telling all your emotions to someone you just met or known for an while. So I visit these places to renew and releash and reenergize. It is important to do that each day and for some days it is necessary to do 3-10 times a day.... Because some things way one mind and heart down. It brings peace to know that your thoughts or worries are being viewed and cared for immediately. It is a freedom we have now and we should use any and everything that will help us to do better, and feel better today assist us in having a positive mind and heart. This is website that I use to help adjust me to do and be better and useful.

Communication Helpers....

I am so thankful for the computer websites like facebook or myspace, because I can stay informed and involved in my family and friends world. Another form of communication today is the cellphone. If you are too busy to log on and type, you can talk on the cell phone or landline phone. Messaging is a bonus. I just invested in another brand name cell phone and I was using Boost cell phone system. Now my friends and family have changed to another brand so I upgraded too. Many cell phone brands are available: verizon, at&t, sprint, boost, metro and others. Whatever brand you choose, make sure you get your money worth --talk , talk--and listen. Spreading love is the antidote and sharing your listening ear is important too. Family and friend time is a gift so dont forget to express your feelings from day to day.....

Strong Households headed by positive women....

You may know many or a few...

But I was raised by a strong person whom was a single parent. She has taught me so many things on how to treat others, handle relationships and how to embrace motherhood. She was raised by another positive person and was surrounded by positive people also. I am very proud
to have had the mentoring of my mother and grandmother and aunt and cousins and friends and role models in the neighborhoods that I resided in. It is however true that it sometimes take a community or village to help with raising a positive and successful individual. Many dont believe that rule of the thumb but some of us do. But being involved in anothers life means alot to them in time it may reveal. Many of us never get the chance to thank others for baking cookies, giving us rides, babysitting us, telling us a story with a life skills lesson, or a simple handshake or hug or smile.... whatever the reason give back to your own community or children it is worth the favor....

Favorite Role Models.....

I was thinking of who are real people that help shape their self esteem and future.

Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. helped in so many ways and assisted in the movement of giving rights to many others.
Harriet Tubman assisted others to be free and survive.
Rosa Parks also helped with her refusal to give up her seat on the bus.
The list goes on and on, and it does matter today and to keep America going positively we need others to continue.
President Obama is a great mentor and his wife, Michelle. Often their family is shown in the media and it is not often said but their is power in the family system that is joined.

Family Values for strong families.....

The Brady Bunch was favorite show of mine growing up.
I enjoyed the family values that the show televised in their many episodes.
Having strong family ties is important to success in building responsible children.
By having a strong bond today with your children you help them become better individuals.
Family communication time and understanding your children is important. Listening to them
can help alot and Being an loving parent can reinforce their morals.

Communication

To be able to have a good relationship with anyone You must be able to listen

communicate well and observe all at the correct timing.

Having experienced in effective communication classes I have learned alot of

techniques that have improved my way of doing things for my mother, my children

and my friends. Of course, my sisters, brothers and many cousins varying in different

ages, and having not the same opinions on everything So we need to be able to use all 3

techniques interchangably. All in love though.....

Hello these are my sons

Single Parenting

I dont think that parenting is easy. But it takes alot of patience and understanding.

Many of us have this skills. Some of us help little brothers or sisters, grandparents, or neighbors, strangers, or your own kids.

To love others is a gift.

And I am a people person type.

So continue loving others and love will return to you in many ways than you ever will know.....

Parenting With GOD's help daily.......

Hello , I am Sharise, you may know me as Ree Ree. Some of you may not know me at all.

I am a junior, at Saginaw Valley State University located in Saginaw, Michigan --USA.

I enjoy having an loving relationship with children, my mom, my sister, my aunt and many cousins and friends.

Pretty much, I am a quiet person and I enjoy advancing and learning in new skills that will
enable me to have the things that I need.

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