Thursday, February 18, 2010

I want to be around when you need me.... love mom



Read these lyrics and remember that I need your love too. Remember that I sometimes

need your hug, your smile, your way of doing things, and your listening ears too. I

understand that you are growing up and need your personal space and enjoy quality

time with other family members,and friends. I respect your feelings and I am glad

that we can communicate and listen and love each other just the way we are...

I can understand if you tell me.....



I just dont want to be the type that dont understand my children. I know that I cant

always be there for every thing or every heart break but I want to emphasis that I

will be only a conversation away, a hug away, a smile away. I express how much I

care for them in person and on the telephone. Many of my friends know how I feel

about them and know how special they are to me. Being a single parent with rules,

and love for my children, I expect our relationship to blossom each day.

How I feel about blogging on Parenting topic?

To me blogging is an excellent way to exercise my views, thoughts, and opinions

on raising my children and my mother and two little sisters. When my mom is not

at her best, I take out the time to assist her needs and when my children need a

hug I give them one and I often observe and listen to them when they seem down

and when they are happy. I cannot be there all the time but I do my part as a

mother. However, I am learning new ways to communicate and observe and listen.

Recently a new grandmother, My grandbaby is 15 months and is very special to me and

my family. Being in school full time, My time is limited but my heart is in it.

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

love in better or worse times



family today does matter. whether it is just you and dad or you and mom or whether it

is grandma and one family generation that has shown family support and gave love

back from each circumstance you go through. Holding grudges is not good for noone.

And family matters do show several episodes on holding grudges within a family unit.

But they always make up and restore love in action and word. Loving one another in the

good times and bad times has an importance...

Just dad and me




In short, some families have just a parent and child. It is not that it was meant

to be that way. But loving each other despite whatever comes up means alot and

helps proves that they will be there for any situation. Whether you blow up in

a issue or over a problem, just relax and know that you can ask for forgiveness

and show love in action to help restore for the wrong behavior. That is the one

good thing about loving others they will forgive you and we all mess up sometimes.

The example of family timesharing....



Family Time is great. Talking about everything is important. But being aware of

embarrassments and achievements when discussing each others thoughts for the day. I

believe that the Obama family is an example on how to interact with each one on a

day to night basis. We know that no family is perfect but we know that time sharing

is great and it inspires each other to do better in communicating, listening and

giving out hugs, and kisses and giving and receiving gifts. It all matters.

Erasing hatred and restoring humankind love....



Miss Mary is a hero in my eyes and heart. She stood for peace keeping and helped

in fighting for minorities. She past away in 1955, and many others have picked up

the spirit to assist in the war against racism, prejudices, stereotypes and hatred

toward other individuals due to their skin color, choice of religion and etc...

But in our history we have many that has and are still doing this good work....